Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Love for my Sweetz!!!


When I First Saw You ...

I Was So Afraid To Meet You ...

When I First Met You ...

I Was So Afraid To Kiss You ...

When I First Kissed You ...

I Was So Afraid To Love You ...

But Now That I Love You ...

I'm Afraid To Lose You...

Now i have lost You...

But now i am never afraid that i will fall in Love with another soul...

my hearts will love you till it will forget to breathe...

LOVE YOU Sweetzzzzz........

love ciao......

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A message for me from ???????, hmm think god?


A true miracle or a message through a paper..

This quote was on a hard torn paper which came flying to my face while i was in my cousin's house, playing wid his dog in his balcony.. and i couldnt believe myself that this message has come to me but frm whom? nowhere, god?.... dont know but i was infact  shocked n not surprised though... this was my first experience of such kind.. so thought i wud share this wid ya ppl...

The Best Love Quote i found to learn something from it >

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

ciao....

Have crush on ur beloveds but dont get crushed by them....



Having a Crush? 

Crushes can turn up at any time and reduce you to a nervous wreck. Here's how to cope up wid it.

Crushes are addictive - they make life exciting, and give you hope and focus. This is why we let ourselves make the same mistakes over and over again, it is the thrill of the chase, except it is often more of a loiter!

The Symptoms of  Crush:
You love them yet you don't even know them;
All you can think about is them and what if...;
You've planned your whole future; 
You follow them round like a puppy on your lunch break;
You go red whenever you see them; 
You lose the power of speech and co-ordination in their presence; 
Butterflies in your stomach; 
Pounding heart; 
You stammer/stutter something like "have you got the time?" at them; 
You imagine hours of conversations with them.

How to cope up wid it....

Try not to tie yourself up in knots about this - you've set yourself up with a fantasy relationship, but that's all. The emotions feeding this fantasy can seem very real, but the advantage is you don't have to deal with the actual person. It's like a sexual encounter without the real-life hassles. 

It is fairly unlikely to turn into reality as often crushes are formed on the unobtainable; they may be attached, a famous film star or totally unsuitable. You have to accept that this romance will never exist outside of your own head. Often, just confiding in someone you trust will help you get things in perspective. 

If things get too intense try to limit your time spent in their company. In time, you'll get a grip on this fantasy, and see it as a learning experience about some powerful emotions. If anything, it'll work in your favour when it comes to dealing with real life, realistic relationships. 

Unobtainable crushes can hurt like hell - the object of your affection may walk past like you don't even exist or, perhaps worse, notice your drooling and laugh about you with all their mates. If this happens, deal with the rejection - treat yourself, see your mates or curl up at home with a DVD of your choice. 

On the practical side, try to fill the time you would otherwise spend thinking about your crush. Plan your day. Promise yourself some crush-free time, and set up a reward afterwards. Once you've defined the boundaries, a crush like this can be a positive experience. One that can set you up to deal with the emotional side of future, more realistic relationships.

So my dear frnds,

have crushes but dont fall prey for them...

Long live relationships and live it to your fullest ..

ciao...

Friday, April 24, 2009

Children of Heaven( best of the movies)


Children of Heaven



Have you ever thanked God for watching a movie? For the first time in my life I did. My heart, unconsciously, thanked Krishna for making me fortunate to watch a spellbinding, neorealist-style, Iranian film, Children of heaven (a.k.a. Bacheha-Ye aseman) written and directed by Majid Majidi. Recently, I was swept away by watching this beautiful, compelling and fascinating film about two children, Ali and Zahara, and their lost pair of sneakers.




The movie begins to a close-up take of a cobbler mending a tattered pair of sneakers. As the experienced hands work on the pink coloured sneakers, the titles appear. Though I didn't have a single idea about the film, I was highly impressed from this very first shot, which creates a mesmeric effect and sets the tone for the whole film.




Then, we see Ali, a desolate looking boy, paying the cobbler and heading to market place to fulfill the chores entrusted by his sick mother. In a vegetable stand, unknowingly, a blind peddler swipes away the sneakers, the only pair his sister Zahara has got for wearing to school. Desperately Ali searches in vain. Knowing that this loss would burden their parents, who are eking out a meager living, Ali asks Zahara to conceal it from them. He concocts a plan and decides to share his canvas shoes, promising his sister to find a solution as soon as possible. Zahara wears the canvas shoes to school in the morning. When the school gets over, she comes back running to a deserted street corner, where Ali eagerly waits. They exchange their shoes, and then Ali hastens to his school, which begins late afternoon. The going (running?!) gets worse… until Ali seizes an opportunity to participate in a marathon race, where by coming third he can win a brand new pair of sneakers and gift it to his sister, who bore the brunt of the loss(from his point of view). Will he win and gift Zahara? For that you have to watch the film, and see how on this seemingly simple premise Iranian Filmmaker Majid Majidi crafts a wonderful, heart warming film about a family in Tehran, though trodden by poverty is richly gifted with moral values, familial love and most of all two innocent, selfless angels, Ali and Zahara.




What I loved and inspired me was the way the children shoulder the burden for their parents. Ali understands the gravity of the loss and takes complete responsibility for it. He gives his valuable belongings to console his worrying sister. And (literally) runs for her throughout the film. On the other side, we see Zahara's hearty smile turning into tears as she discovers about the sneakers. But without making any fuss she seeks for a solution. Though reluctant about the shoe-swapping plan, she sincerely follows it, and endures all the hardships for his brother without disclosing the truth to their parents. Yeah... she gets frustrated and blames Ali often, but the realization of her family's financial situation and brother's loving gifts makes her smile even amidst the predicament. 




Their exemplary performance will tug at your heartstrings. Their emotions are sincere. Their smiles are angelic. Their plight is genuine. Their determination is remarkable. In all, they are children of heaven. 




Ali's father is hard working but unskilled. He is so truthful and honest that he doesn't even take a teaspoon sugar from the sugar cubes, entrusted by the Mosque, spread in front of him, while the tea is served (one of the brilliant scenes in the film). Here, he unconsciously sets an example for his children. 




Majid Majidi has the knack of creating a masterpiece from the most trivial things (at least we think so!) of life. He has achieved something what all the mega-budget, technically flaunting, big name movies mostly fail to do. He moves your heart. Leaves you with characters etched in your memory. And very subtly (read powerfully) asserts LESS IS MORE! 




The film has no special effects, no mind-boggling sets, no exotic locations, no skimpy dressed women, no gun trotting villains and fiercely chasing heroes (add to them all the must-haves of our stereotype movies) and yet keeps you hooked for an hour and half. Majid Majidi captures the otherwise mundane life with such a beauty, innocence and warmth. The scenes where Ali and Zahara, without their parent’s knowledge, secretly pass notes to one other, and blow bubbles from soap foams, while washing the dirty canvas, will simply fill your heart with joy and will leave you speechless.




The director brings you to the edge of the seat when Zahara’s shoe slips and falls into an open gutter. He shows the rich-poor division when Ali and his father set out for gardening job in the city. Top of it all, he blows away your mind in the suspenseful, breathtaking and remarkable marathon race – the grand finale! 




It is one of those rare films that transcend barriers and strike an emotional chord in your heart. Though the film is set in Tehran, like all good movies, it is universal in its appeal. The film is a visual poetry. Majid Majidi has weaved the story through visuals. Even without subtitles you can enjoy the film and be moved by it. 




The editing and camera work perfectly in favour of the story. The only complain I have about the movie is the background score, which is good but not excellent. The film’s ending is also as poetic as the beginning – Ali dips his sore, worn-out feet in a pond, and beautiful golden fishes come to caress those tiny selfless feet. 



Still, if you're not convinced with me or have not yet seen the film, watch it, then you'll really know why my heart thanked God! am very much sure it wil leace few foot steps in ur memories too... cheers..!!